If someone says something to you and it feels like a hurtful statement, your first reaction is judgment and to defend your action, your words, your belief. But now you are getting to the place where you can take a deep breath and you know that the perception that you initially have is one that has been taught to you down through the generations, but maybe now there can be a new way of looking at something. And as you are willing to bring in that divine feminine of allowance, you give others the opportunity to see things anew.