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why many spiritual spaces feel off to me
Dear friend,
Over the years I explored all kinds of spiritual spaces.
Meditation groups…
Yoga retreats…
Spiritual communities…
and if I’m being honest…
Many of them felt off to me.
Of course…
I’m not saying all of them were…
But there was always this hierarchy.
That one person at the top…
And everyone else under their control.
And I’m just not interested in any of that.
Most people immediately assume the ego mind is at fault.
But what I’ve come to realize is…
your ego isn’t the enemy.
The ego mind is actually the part of you that’s been yearning…
For your own love and attention.
And if you honor and show up for your ego mind…
it will work with you instead of against you.
But when someone’s ego hasn’t healed…
And they haven’t worked through their pain and traumas…
The survival Self starts to take over…
Doing everything it can to protect itself.
The person begins to project their wounds onto you.
Competing and hurting you…
Instead of lifting you up.
I’ve seen it happen…
Even with beloved teachers and ‘visionaries’ in the spiritual space for years.
At the end of the day…
I believe from my core…
That we are all the same and we are all equal.
What you see in me…
You already have inside of you.
And what I see in you…
I already have inside of me.
No one is above the other.
This is where real healing…
Growth…
And miracles happen.
I’ve always looked for this.
A safe space where Everyone heals and thrives.
That’s why when I created Healing Haven…
I knew I didn’t want to recreate anything that had to do with the outdated patriarchal structures.
Instead…
I wanted a space to co-create…
Uplift…
And empower others.
To help them recognize and welcome all of their Divine gifts…
and embrace their most Authentic Self.
Whether someone is committed to doing deep inner healing work…
Or prefers to just sit back and receive healing support…
It is all honored here.
Because this isn’t about hierarchy…
But about creating an energized healing vortex…
Where you are seen…
and eternally valued.
Where healing happens horizontally in every direction.
So my friend…
If you’ve also been looking for something like this…
A safe space where you are lifted up…
And supported to heal…
Prosper…
And thrive…
Through all seasons of your life…
Without hierarchy…
That’s Healing Haven.
And you can learn more right here
With love,
Emmanuel
Emmanuel Dagher | 323 East Matilija St. | Ojai, CA 93023 US
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Something Big is happening—and you can feel it 💚
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Hello my Friend –
With NESARA’s enactment unfolding and movies like Disclosure Day coming out, you might be feeling Something Big is happening.
And you couldn’t be more right.
The solar Light waves flowing to Earth, the golden Light particles our cells are absorbing, the energies we are rising to meet as we Ascend to 5D . . .
All are calling us into higher levels of growth and healing than most of us could have imagined a year ago.
That process can feel rough some days.
So today’s video is a message from the Dragons of Higher Light:
This is a time to feel encouraged, not powerless, as we clear the inner caves of the subconscious.
Dragon Wisdom & Light Language: You are Creator, Light Bringer! 💚 #Starseed #Dragon #Lightworkers
Claiming our Creator status.
Leaving victimhood behind forever . . .
That’s the real miracle!
NESARA is just the outer gift that reflects the inner healing we’ve been doing all along.
As I build this new Dragon Healing Codes community, some videos may be shorter for now.
But each carries much Love, support, and a reminder:
Your journey is never in vain.
You are moving forward more powerfully in every moment.
Love & Blessings,
Caroline
P S Ever checked into a hotel or Airbnb that looked perfectly fine, yet something just felt off?
Maybe sleep was restless. Or you felt drained or unsettled.
Our nervous systems respond to spaces more deeply than we realize—especially while we’re traveling.
That’s why I’m so happy to share The Feng Shui Traveler Masterclass with feng shui expert Thea Little. ✨
You’ll learn simple, practical ways to create harmony, ease, and energetic support in any travel space—so your journeys feel smoother, calmer, and more renewing.
Use code CAROLINE77 to join for $77 (regularly $111), and make travel a joyful time of ease & flow!
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Messages from Ann & the Angels – 05/09/26 • Boundaries, Honesty, & Honoring Your Light
Message from the Angels
Messages from the Angels
My dear friends, we love you so very much,
You are lovers, dear friends. You love to uplift people because seeing another shine brighter as a result of your light delights the soul. You love to help when your service can truly assist because it keeps love in flow. You love to share with those who will make use of your gifts because it helps you feel abundant.
But where you get into trouble—burnt out, tired, or resentful—is when your giving is not done from the natural impulses within. Far too often, you give out of a sense of duty or because you fear what may happen if you don’t. You may feel someone has no one else, or you may simply feel you won’t be a good person if you don’t help.
There are so many misunderstandings around this topic, but the easiest thing to remember is very simple:
Giving, sharing, or serving from your love or joy comes from the light within. Giving, sharing, or serving without that love or joy comes from the ego.
And it is never wrong, of course, to help another. But divinely guided giving uplifts both giver and receiver, while ego-based giving can easily drain one and make the other feel “less than.”
There are no hard-and-fast rules about when it is “right” to give. You have your own inner compass to guide you. Your feelings tell you, before you do a thing, which exchanges will be mutually uplifting and which will not; which ones will serve your greater desires, and which ones will distract from them.
Pay attention to your feelings.
If you are a parent, you may not feel like taking your kids to school in the moment, but your deeper feeling is love for them and a desire to see them thrive. If you can focus on that love, suddenly the drive seems like a privilege rather than a chore. If, however, a perfectly capable adult wants you to chauffeur them around on a regular basis, you may not feel the same way!
Suppose a family member you love calls and asks if you have time to help them with a project on the weekend. If you do have time and you feel inspired, then you will both be uplifted. If you don’t, then either politely decline or arrange another time.
None of you likes to disappoint another, but we marvel at how easily you will disappoint yourselves in an attempt to please someone else.
You need never feel guilty for being honest, dear friends.
You need never feel responsible for another’s well-being unless they are your child or a dependent. And even then, they are responsible for their own moods!
Your kind and compassionate honesty is love. Inauthentic service is not.
You can do the same act with completely different energy and have completely different results. You can feed people with resentment, and they will feel “less than.” You can feed them with love, and they will feel lifted.
You can help a grown child by giving them money to support their goals while believing in them, taking care of yourself, and focusing on the love. In this case, your energy is saying, “I love you. I believe in you. I know you can succeed, and I’m not going to sacrifice myself for you. I’ll share from my abundance of love.”
What they do with your gift is up to them. You are in a vibration of love, in which you have the best chance of uplifting them.
Or you can give out of duty and resent it. Perhaps you don’t believe they can handle the consequences of their own choices. Or more honestly, perhaps you don’t believe you can handle the consequences of their choices.
It is the same action—sharing money—but in this case, you are sending an energetic signal that says, “I don’t trust you. You could mess your life up and never recover. I couldn’t handle it if you do. I will save you to spare myself from the consequences I fear.”
Dear ones, that is not the signal you would ever intend to send another, but it is often what gets sent.
Again, what they do with your gift—and your energy—is up to them. But in this case, your vibration is a mixture of love and fear. This does not serve either of you in the deeper sense.
Perhaps you can find a compromise that feels good to both of you. It would be worth examining your feelings to find a solution that feels more authentic to you.
If we could, we would relieve you of the undeserved guilt that plagues so many of you when you put your own heart first.
You need never feel guilty for being honest.
You need never feel guilty for spending your money on the things you desire, or your time on the projects that make your heart sing.
If you had a friend who was starving, of course, you’d feed them. Everyone deserves food, water, and shelter. But the majority of the time, when you set aside your own heart, it is not to help another survive.
So be kind to yourselves. Take care of your own heart and your own light.
As you allow yourselves to live according to the dictates of your own heart, you will naturally be uplifted. You will naturally feel like giving where giving is useful. And you will live in a flow in which authentic giving, sharing, and serving uplift rather than deplete you.
By all means, help others when your loving heart is full, and it feels like joy. But when it does not, be honest, dear ones, and do so without guilt. For if each soul tended kindly to their own light, your world would be a much happier place.
God Bless You! We love you so very much.
— The Angels
New Video: In the midst of chaos, something sacred is happening…
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Hello my Friend –
This week’s video brings through the beautiful presence of the Dolphin and Whale family—Earth Angels—along with a message of encouragement with supportive healing energies.
These intense energies happening now aren’t here to break you.
They’re here to return you to your true self.
Your Creator power . . . your Higher Self.
And still, it can feel like everything is shifting at once—within and around us, and across the planet.
Yet even in the exhaustion, the sadness, the frustration . . . something sacred is unfolding.
A higher version of us is being birthed—a self that no longer settles, no longer plays small, no longer accepts “just getting by.”
It calls us into deeper self-Knowing, greater self-Love, and a life aligned with our true power—fully present, fully alive.
Watch the video here, and and read the full Message here.
If you feel called to deeper support, you’re warmly invited to join us:
Our next Group Channeling & Energy Work Healing Circle on Sunday, April 26 is nearly full, with just a couple of spots remaining.
Or join us on Sunday, May 3 for a Special Group Session to retrieve lost soul aspects that leave us feeling disempowered (more common than you might think!):
Reclaiming Your Soul’s Full Presence & Power:
Healing Soul Fragmentation and Calling Your Soul Fully Home
Learn more and save your seat here:
If you can’t attend live, no worries — just send in a question and receive your channeled guidance via replay that holds all the energy work.
These are powerful times—yet we are deeply supported!
Powerful Angelics and Light Beings are pouring in to the planet now, spreading Divine Love throughout.
And your ability to embody the same higher Love grows stronger every day. 💜
Much Love & Dragon-heart blessings!
Caroline
What people are saying about working with the Collective and the Dragon Tribes . . .
“Thank you so much for your kind words and for the helpful ideas and energy of Sunday.
I truly did enjoy it and will return to the recording you sent.
I did feel lighter after speaking with you, the Collective, and the Dragon Tribes.
I enjoyed the group energy and found that I could relate a little to what everyone wanted insights on.
I find your work always helps me in whatever way it comes. I look forward to future sessions with you. Thank you again!”
– Erin, Michigan
“Thank you so much for the beautiful healing on Sunday.
During the energy work, I felt my chest and throat opening and many heavy emotions clearing.
Immediately after the session, I felt uplifted and light. I slept very well that night.
It felt so validating to know from my guides and the Collective that I am meant to be working with my gifts and breaking free from over-giving.
I also really appreciate the recording so I can listen to the healing several times, which I’ve already started doing.
I’m already looking forward to my next session!
Thank you so much for your work.”
– Jen, Massachusetts
“Caroline, I loved my experience with you and the Golden Dragons. At one point I just wanted to laugh out loud with sheer joy.
I feel you and the Dragons gave me the perfect path for me to do my part in my partnership with Father/Mother God and my health issue.
I am excited to be on this new journey.
Tonight after my session I am feeling relaxed, upbeat and at peace.
I feel a quiet confidence that all is moving forward perfectly.”
– Jan, Arizona
“Thank you so much for your energy work in addressing my questions RE my property for sale, as I had felt there was something holding it back.
It was very moving and powerful.
There was always a great vibe in the house, and I am so glad it has now had the clearing for new people to live there.
I had been sending the house different rays—i.e., the Violet Flame etc.—and last week had asked for the Golden Ray and the Green Ray to cleanse the house, property, and the surrounding town.
So it was lovely to hear the Dragons use those rays / energies.
I felt much lighter in my body after the session, and went for a walk on the beach.”
– Louella, Australia
“Dearest Caroline,
Thank you with all my heart. Last evening’s session with you, the Collective and the Dragons was pure joy and amazing.
I was and still am in a state of awe at how much lighter I felt after the clearing and the Dragon Light language.
I feel lighter and clearer. My whole torso is working better.
And thank you for the recording and all the added resources. I am so deeply grateful.
I will be re-listening to the recording every day, probably twice a day on some days!”
– Patricia, Canada
“Thanks to you, we received a lot of information concerning our granddaughter who was born with a rare syndrome.
What a surprise that she was present at meeting with the Dragons tribes, and that she even could communicate with them in their own language, although in her earthly life she can’t even speak.
So many uplifting remarks were made concerning her presence in our family and her life goal.
Thank you, thank you!”
– Angela and Genio, the Netherlands
“Thank you so much to you and team.
Although complex, the past life trauma layer that was cleared allowed other layers and awareness to be revealed.
The Dragon Light language always feels very gentle & supportive.
Your additional advice and supporting [guided meditation] MP3s are so helpful, and gratefully appreciated.
Many thanks!”
– Abi, UK
“Thank you deeply, Caroline and the Dragon Tribes and the Collective, for the beautiful, timely guidance and confirmation in my process.
Sending so much gratitude for their beautiful wisdom and support at this time.”
– Cordelia, Colorado
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The Help Coming from the Arcturians ∞The 9D Arcturian Council
The Help Coming from the Arcturians ∞The 9D Arcturian Council – Click the Pic Above to Watch me Channel this Message
“Greetings. We are The Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We are very specialized in our approach to helping humankind. In other words, we work with you all energetically. We work with thought, we work with emotion, we work with feelings. We help you to feel more of the energies that are inside of you and all around you, and then you get to choose what you do with what you find when you go on your own investigations.
We encourage you to explore your inner realm as much as you are willing to explore your outer realm. We do not think that one is more important than the other. In other words, you have an outside world to experience, to interact with, and to take actions in, and you have an inner world of thoughts, feelings, emotions, beliefs, intuitive hits, and so on. They are equally important, but we can work with you on the non-physical aspects of your reality and your experience of your reality because we are non-physical.
You can help each other in a variety of ways, and many of you seek to help your fellow humans in all the possible ways that you can. In other words, when something happens, you can ask yourself how you can help with your actions, with your money, and perhaps even with your words, your thoughts, your opinions, as you can share those now and reach people from all across the world.
You can, at times, wait for inspiration before you take an action, and you can also start taking an action in one direction and learn something while doing so, and then course-correct and make the necessary adjustments. You want to strike a balance between doing and not doing, just like you want to strike a balance between thinking and feeling. You want to strike a balance between believing everything and being skeptical of everything.
You want to find the healthy balance in your life experience because you are meant to experience your life in a variety of different ways. You are not supposed to be only taking action all the time, and you are not supposed to be only sitting and doing nothing but think and feel and contemplate all the time either. Again, one can inspire the other, and you can learn a lot by taking actions in specific directions.
And so, oftentimes, when you don’t know what to do or which choice to make, you can find out a lot about the choices that you have in front of you by simply moving in one direction and seeing how it goes. Are you hitting a lot of roadblocks? Are you finding yourself with too many challenges, too many obstacles, when you move in that direction? Are you not liking the way you feel as you move in that direction? And that can be the way that you learn that moving in another direction would be better.
But one thing is clear and for certain, and that is that you don’t have to know how everything is going to turn out before you make a decision or take some action towards a goal that you have or something that you want to do out of love, out of the joy of doing it. You don’t need to know how everything is going to work out, but you can trust that everything will work out, and you can accept that it’s okay to make mistakes.
You can accept that you’re never going to be perfect in every single way, and that you don’t have to be. You can also let yourselves off the hook because no one expects you to be, and you don’t need to expect yourselves to be perfect and never make a wrong turn on your path. When you are dealing with the non-physical aspect of reality, you have more than just us as your helpers. You have your teams, your guides, your ancestors. You have angels and fairies that are specific to you. You have so many beings assisting you, including your very own higher selves and oversouls.
When it comes to taking actions, you have your fellow humans. You know, you are more powerful when you band together and when you collaborate, and so, we recommend that you look for opportunities to collaborate with your fellow humans and feel the power that you can experience in your numbers, in your intentions being aligned with the other people that you are taking the actions alongside. We suspect many of you have experienced that strength in numbers in many different instances in your lives.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”
Do You Want to Go Home? ∞St. Germain
Do You Want to Go Home? ∞St. Germain – Click the Pic Above to Watch me Channel this Message
“I am St. Germain, keeper of the violet flame.
You are beings of unconditional love, and when you stray from the feeling of who and what you are, you feel it. You feel the discord in your physical bodies. It registers as negative emotion. You tense up, you cramp up. You contract. You get a stomachache, a headache. All kinds of things start to happen to tell you that you are not in your center. You are not in your truth in those moments, and you need signs, signals, something to come along to alert you to that fact because the outside world doesn’t tell you right away that you have strayed from the heart, the core of who you really are.
Now, you will see the discord in your outside world, your life circumstances and conditions eventually. But first, you get the signal from within, and it doesn’t feel good. And what’s even more confusing than the results not showing up right away in the physical realm, is that sometimes you will get other people to join in with you, to agree with you. They may approve of what you are saying and doing. They may applaud. They may pat you on the back, even though you have strayed from the truth of who you really are as unconditional love.
Unconditional love forgives. Unconditional love never condemns in the first place. But when you condemn and then you come back to your center, you as the unconditionally-loving being that you are will forgive. Unconditional love sees the whole person, sees the soul behind the person that is acting out in some way that has caused you to go into a state of resistance or judgment. Unconditional love sees everyone and everything as a part of itself. And so, even though it can be attractive to you at times to go away from the center of your knowing, of your being-ness, you are always welcome home. You are always welcome back into the center, into the truth of who you really are.
And it is that journey of going home that your lives are all about. You then get to experience how you feel when you go from a place that is outside of the realm of unconditional love, to the place of unconditional love. It is the returning, the remembrance that you are there for. That’s why it is okay for you to stray. That’s why it was always a part of the plan for you to go into judgment, to resistance and to fear. It was always going to be a part of at least one of your journeys to go into hate, resentment, shame, but then you get to go home.
Now, since all of you already know this, and we know we are preaching to the choir here, it is important for you also to simply center yourselves once a day in your hearts, and you can use the violet flame as a guide, as a tool to get there if you want to. But going to your heart center and thinking, speaking and acting from the heart center will put you on your highest path, your highest timeline. You will feel the way you want to feel in the moment, and you will be moving towards more of what you want.
So, please do remember that you have in the very center of your heart the feeling of unconditional love. It is you. It is who and what you really are and always have been. It’s what you were created from. It’s how you can feel yourself as a Source Energy Being and know that you are always connected. And it is your best possible guide and guidance system. And remember also when you stray from your center that it is okay and that it was always part of the plan. You are not a bad person or a sinner because you have done so. You are there to have all kinds of different experiences, and they all result in the expansion of All-That-Is, all that we all are together.
So, don’t worry about it. Don’t spend any more time in guilt and shame than you already have, because those experiences will also keep you from being the unconditional love that you are and the unconditional lover who can do so much good in the world by spreading that truth, by spreading who and what you are around in all the ways that you can.
I am St. Germain, keeper of the violet flame.”





